I sometimes wonder what I would be like, what my life would be like, and what kind of person I would be if I didn’t have Corey or if Corey didn’t have autism. It’s something I typically think about when I am feeling down and defeated. When taking care of Corey is kicking my ass. [...]
Entries from January 2009
January 29, 2009
Typical Thursday…
Mandy: can I feature one of your photos on SK as the Pic of the Week sometime?
cah1470: depends am I naked?
Mandy: it will be a non nude photo
cah1470: in that case sure.
And then after work I went to wally world to get my book signed.
Yep that would be Jimmy Carter and a few secret [...]
January 27, 2009
TMI Tuesday #171- Movie Edition
1. What was the last movie you saw in a theater?
W. with MNG.
2. What is your favorite movie theater snack?
I am not a snacker for the most part. I never eat or drink in the theater.
3. Have you ever snuck in ‘outside’ food into a theater?
Nope, oddly enough food and eating is an afterthought for [...]
January 25, 2009
What he meant to say…
When SE kept saying he didn’t think he wanted to get married again what he meant to say was he didn’t want to marry me. Or maybe he was just saying what he sensed I wanted to hear. Either way Y finally couldn’t hold the news in any longer, SE announced at Christmas he is [...]
January 23, 2009
Paper thin…
I heard the most amazing story on my way home from work yesterday. Inspiring and just amazing. I have had “Stand” by Sly & The Family Stone in my head ever since.
Paper thin is how I have been feeling this week. I am sick but I don’t have the luxury of being able to stay [...]
January 21, 2009
Hail to the chief…
Like everyone else I was glued to the tube yesterday. I watched all the coverage of the inauguration on c span from 9am until the end of the parade. After the parade I dragged myself out of bed to fix dinner. I have been sick since the weekend. I just seemed to deteriorate after the [...]
January 19, 2009
MLK…
We know through painful experience that freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed. Frankly, I have never yet engaged in a direct action movement that was “well timed,” according to the timetable of those who have not suffered unduly from the disease of segregation. For years now [...]
January 17, 2009
In Memoriam…
Forgive what seem’d my sin in me;
What seem’d my worth since I began;
For merit lives from man to man,
And not from man, O Lord, to thee.
Forgive my grief for one removed,
Thy creature, whom I found so fair.
I trust he lives in thee, and there
I find him worthier to [...]
January 15, 2009
Reprieve…
The day before they boys were due back to school after Christmas break I got a call from the director of Corey’s after school. She had not received any notices from Raleigh with my appeal date and Value Options was refusing to pay Corey’s bill. So she told me Corey could not come back to [...]
January 13, 2009
Life is short…
As soon as I came in to work today I got an IM from a friend and co-worker to come and see her. Brandi is the HR admin and she and I do our share of talking about work. Who is vulnerable, who isn’t, what can we do to be one of the [...]


